Hands-free orgasm!

Dear Dr. Rix,

Last night I was watching porn and trying to get off. I grabbed my dick but I really wanted to rub my abs. I flexed my abs and started rubbing them up & down really fast. That made me cum! It was like jacking off my torso! I was holding my dick still but the action of flexing my abs and rubbing them made me cum. Have you heard of anything like that? It was a really cool orgasm. --

Sensitive Washboard.



Very hot, SW! Yes, the human body can be wired up in many different ways, and just about any part can be sexually stimulated to bring on arousal. Many people have discovered parts of their bodies that have a direct connection to their genitals, like a tug on the nipple or a kiss on the neck. But there seems to be no limit to which body part can do this, depending on the person. Sometimes it not only stimulates arousal, but one rarer occasions, it can bring on orgasm and ejaculation, as well (Although orgasm and ejaculation can be two different things, for the sake of space, I’m going to call it all “cumming”).



There are people who can cum from their pits being licked. Some people cum from just their inner thighs being touched. I know it sounds a little like a Dr. Suess poem — “Some can cum from tickling their feet, some can cum from kissing their cheek” — but our bodies are that diverse. Of course, there are a lot of guys that just being penetrated, with probably a good bump on the prostate, can bring on a strong cum without ever grabbing their rod.
Furthermore, people who have lost sensation from their waist or neck down often have bodies that compensate for the loss. Somehow their bodies shift sensitivity to such a degree that lightly rubbing the back of their arms, for example, can send them into orbit around the planet orgasmia. The human body is that amazing!



I’ll let you in on a little secret, our muscles around the genital area can have a significant influence on our ability to cum. The more in shape they are the stronger the cum, and many feel they have better control over their cumming as well. How do you exercise them? Besides the fun activity of sex, it’s much like Kegel Exercises for women. Three easy steps:
1) squeeze all your genital muscles (including around your anus) like when you have to pee but you have to hold it. 2) relax all your muscles down there (really concentrate at relaxing ALL of the muscles -- it can take a few seconds), and 3) push all of these muscles, like you’re taking a dump (but don’t actually take one).



Do forty of these a day — squeeze, relax, push, relax, and so on — and you’ll have stronger cums. I’ve known guys that get so good at this that just by squeezing and relaxing over and over again, they can cum without ever touching their cocks. I’ll bet your abs trick was some kind of configuration similar to this, SW.



For an even stronger dimension to this exercise, use one of those tiny vibrators that come with a rubbery cockring and strap it around the head of your erect penis. It takes some finessing to get it to stay on, but then use it as a kind of barbell when doing these exercises — while it’s vibrating — and I tell you, you’re gonna see God, and it’s going to feel like someone’s sucking you dry! Enjoy!